It's a Long Distance Relationship, not a written Fairy Tale
Story
by : Arryo
Hola, readers! How was your Saturday night? Was it full of
love in the air? Or perhaps waiting for a knight on a white horse to rescue you
from the doomed castle? Hehe. Hoped it was not that bad. Starting from there, I
got a new topic to write down again.
Before I start, do you believe that Long Distance
Relationship (LDR) could end up with happy ending? I will leave the answer for
you guys. I read like tons of LDR quotes before I started writing, and this
quote got my attention, it said “People who say long distance relationships
never work, clearly haven’t met us.” Pretty cool, isn’t it?
Basically, what I will spill out on here is about the things
that you will encounter in LDR. Of course, it was based on writer’s experiences
(Haha) sad. (I even wrote this on one lonely Saturday night). If you
wanted to try LDR then you better read this first.
Non-stop “I miss you”
syndrome is the best part
After the long hours of video call, it will not aid the “I miss
you” feeling. Hehe. You will never get enough talking to your loved one. Then,
you start texting again saying “I miss you so much and I love you.” Or probably
make it a bit dramatic, who knows!?
But… those last
precious 10 minutes as always
*Video Call* Your SO said “Alright baby, I’ll hang up now.” and
you just like “But, babeb… Emmm.. Can I ask for your ten more minutes?” *Repeat*.
That explained it all!
Those favourite secret
midnight call
Love is all about sacrifice… sleeping time too! Cannot help,
your body automatically wakes up at 3 AM or suddenly an enormous power runs
through your body to keep you awake, just so you can talk to your SO (11 hour difference).
Desperately waiting
for a reply
Believe me, it was super awful and it happened often! That
unbearable anxious and sad feeling hit you, while your bae suddenly left with no
reply for a day or probably three days for the worst part. In the end, you went
upset and frustrated.
It is so UNFAIR!
Sometimes, you just have to accept the fact that you were in
a LDR. In fact, seeing some hot couples walked down the street hand in hand
really kill your Saturday’s mood. Next thing you probably will do is, lock
yourself in the room and start blaming the unfairness situation.
Tears could be
helpful too
I understand the unbearable mix up feeling going on there. All
those ups and downs could leave you burst into tears, whether you like it or
not. It is good though knowing that’s the reminder of how much you love your
SO. You will feel at ease too after this. Just enjoy those tears that fell down.
Shout-out to all LDR-ers on earth! Have faith in your LDR, perhaps
it would be a good ending for you. You know how precious your bae is and learn
from all the ups and downs until the day where the plane ticket will be one
way. Worth to experience it!
Photo Credits : Logan Smith, memegenerator,
@missfittosuccess, getty images, rlretraining, giphy
